I’m aware that there’s a huge elephant in the room which I’ve been so far avoiding, and that comes in the form of a question. Do people really want all the things I’m envisioning here? Apart from the obvious issue of whether people want to be inclusive, do they even really want reasonableness, kindness, peace, and sustainability? When they measure the cost to themselves of this struggle, are they really committed? Are you? Are people motivated by ethics and compassion, or are money, possessions, power, and sexual gratification ultimately more appealing? Is goodness, kindness, and peace boring? The truth is that I don’t know the answer to these questions. 

So, the first thing we should do is ask ourselves honestly whether we really are committed to the ideals I have described. Do you really want a just and peaceful world, do your neighbours really want this? If you do, then there are some things we can all do to help us get there. If you are on the outside looking down your nose at all progressive faith and humanistic communities, I would challenge you to reconsider and join or rejoin one, however imperfect and frustrating at times. Your hands are dirtier with what might be called ‘sins of omission’ by not engaging than they would be sullied by engaging with the occasional impossible person or making the occasional mistake! Join and support one of the faith, belief or ethical organisations, which field (or have the potential to field) inclusive chaplains, and from which might emerge the very people who will found those vital social enterprises and other initiatives. If you cannot find a creative community of inclusive and progressive thinkers in your area, who seek to enrich culture, promote wellness, live sustainably, and form deeper connections, then perhaps you should start one.

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In January 2020, Dr. Anastasia Somerville-Wong became the first Humanist Chaplain to join the Multi-faith Chaplaincy Team at the University of Exeter. She is also a Chaplain with the Community and Mental Health Team at Somerset NHS Foundation Trust. This is a shortened version of the talk she gave to the 2022 SOF Annual on Being Human.